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From: Revjam61@aol.com
Sent: Thursday, October 09, 2003 8:04 PM
To: DrBerger@tubal-reversal.net
Subject: Re: our new family The Murphy's
Dear Dr. Berger:
Elena had a tubal when she
was about 20 because her husband at the time didn't want anymore
children. They had 2 already. when Elena was 25 her husband
was killed in an automobile accident and her life changed.
She then met another man and married him and
she wanted to have more children but she couldn't. So she
looked into having a tuballigation reversal. To have it done
around here in Virginia it was over $10,000 and it was very
involved. She had testing and they said that her tubes appeared
to be to short and weren't sure how the surgery would come
out.
Shortly after all this her marriage was getting
worse and a divorce followed. Then just over 6 years ago Elena
and I met and we were only friends for years. Then the Lord
spoke to our hearts and we saw the love and life of God in
each other and got married 3 years ago. Shortly after getting
married Elena wanted to have more children but there was still
the problem on having a reversal. we started looking into
it and the costs had gone up slightly since then plus all
the test costs were pretty high also. Mind you Elena has 2
children already David is 20 and Dannielle is 18. I also have
2 children Shaina is 13 and Nakyea is 9. So the thought came
to me about looking online to see if there was any other places
to consider getting the tuballigation reversal operation done
at.
So I typed in tubal reversal and the first
place that came up was DR Berger. We looked over the info
and expense and had the funds for his requirement.
The first thought that went through my mind
was is this place legit. So we made phone calls to check out
Dr. Berger's credentials. They all checked out. So we scheduled
our tuballigation reversal surgery and made our reservations.
The surgery was performed and all was well after a short period
of healing. Dr. Berger gave us some instructions and we followed
them and this was September and by December we were pregnant.
Then in January 16th we got a call to take in 4 foster children
which were a sibling group and we accepted and now our family
is growing rapidly. With in 2 weeks of the children coming
we miscarried and it was hard on us.
So after a month we started again toward having
a child. It was exactly 9 months to the day after the miscarriage
that we conceived again and it was on our anniversary.
We notified Dr. Bergers office and the were informed of all
that was happening part of the way through the pregnancy.
8 and a half months later Gracianna Mercerdez Murphy was born
healthy and loved and shares a large and loving family. She
is 5 months now and is a blessing to us.
My wife and I also have a ministry to pregnant moms from teenagers
to women in there 30s. Plus we still have our 4 lovely foster
children that we are looking forward to adoption if all goes
as planned.
Plus we want to expand our family by at least
3 more children of our own giving us a total of 12. We just
love all of our children and we may also adopt more along
the way. God has filled our hearts and house with so many
blessings.
Please be assured that Dr. Berger and his office
staff which by the way are very caring and wonderful, will
give you all the support and help to see you through. We appreciate
all you have done for us and will keep you informed as our
family grows.
Also I wanted to let you all know that Elena
was 36 when we had the reversal done and I was 40 so don't
think it is to late let the doctor help you with that information.
Blessings and prayers,
Jim and Elena Murphy
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